If you’re an Asian guy looking for a White girl or vice versa, here’s the guide for you. Looking for an AMWF dating app? Let me help you out! For starters, the most popular dating app out there is Tinder.
One fast-rising sub-niche in the overall dating niche involves AMWF dating. More and more Asian males are looking for white female dates and vice versa. It’s as if Asian males have become this newly discovered dating demographic for the mainstream population.
Not surprisingly, there are quite a number of dating apps that have been coded specifically for AMWF dating. The problem with those apps, just like with any other demographically specific apps, involves one of traction.
If you have ever gone to any kind of specialized dating website or have used a very targeted dating app, you know exactly what the problem is. The problem is that there’s not much to choose from.
You have to understand that if you are looking for a date, you basically have the whole United States’ massive territorial area to deal with. This is very different, let’s say, dating in a country Lichtenstein or Monaco or even Estonia. The smaller the area, the easier it is to date because there’s not much distance to cover. Also, it’s easier to connect because you’re pretty much all within a covenant distance.
That’s not the case with the United States. The continental United States is big enough. Can you imagine trying to date somebody in Hawaii or Alaska? On top of that, given the wide distribution of people and the amount of people interested in any kind of demographic specific dating app, you’re bound to find yourself in a frustrating situation.
Let’s face it. If you are looking for a demographically specific type of person, they may not be evenly distributed throughout the United States. This is definitely true Asian males and Asian people in general.
When you look at the residential patterns of Asians, they tend to, but not exclusively, live in urban and suburban areas. What if you live in the middle of the country? What if you live in a rural area? You may even live in a fairly populous state like Illinois or California; however if you live in places like Redlands or Peoria, you’re going to have a tough time because the demographic breakdown there may not be substantial enough to justify using demographically specific dating apps.
Again, this applies across the board. Maybe you’re into Middle Eastern women. Perhaps you’re into women who are into certain activities or hobbies. Possibly, you’re looking for somebody from a specific religious background. Demographically targeted dating apps, just like demographically specific dating websites, face a serious distribution issue.
Tinder to the Rescue
This is why if you are looking for AMWF dating apps, you should just focus on the runaway winner in that category. I am, of course, talking about Tinder. The great thing about Tinder is that everybody has heard about it and even if the type of person you’re looking for is quite few and far between, they are more likely to be found on Tinder.
That’s how powerful Tinder is. It is a tried-and-proven brand. It has the ability to pull in a lot of people who would not normally use a dating app. This is why it’s really important to look for maximum saturation as far as a brand recognition and membership are concerned.
I understand the appeal of demographically specific dating apps. I really do. However, the problem is the real people on those apps may be so few and far between that they’re not really worth your time and effort. Seriously. This is unfortunate. I wish it were otherwise. However, this is definitely the case.
To add insult to injury, it is the common practice with dating websites, and I suspect also with dating apps, to use fake accounts. Now don’t freak out. I’m not saying that these apps and websites are engaged in any kind of fraud. I’m not saying that the typical AMWF dating apps out there are just chock full of fake accounts intended to lure in and get you to pay money.
I’m not claiming that necessarily. What I’m saying is that to solve the empty restaurant effect, dating apps and dating websites are basically pushed into a corner. It’s not like they have a choice.
The Empty Restaurant Problem
When was the last time you visited a town or a city and ate at an empty restaurant? I would venture to guess the answer is never. You would be an absolutely normal person to think that way. You would be perfectly justified. You’re just being reasonable.
How come? One key indication of whether a restaurant is any good is if there are people inside. Preferably, there should be people of the same ethnicity who come from the same country as the cuisine of the food.
For example, if I go to a new city and I pass by a Chinese restaurant and it’s chock full of Chinese and other Asian people, chances are the food is legit. Chances are the Chinese food that they’re serving tastes good enough, at least it’s appealing enough for people from a certain national origin to be there.
That’s how the normal human mind works. That’s why a lot of people avoid eating at empty restaurants. They don’t know what’s going on. They don’t know if the food is any good. They haven’t seen a review of the restaurant. So, more likely than not, the restaurant stays empty.
This empty restaurant effect that involves the lack of social proof producing even more lack of interest is a common problem. This applies across the board. This doesn’t just apply to restaurants. This applies to any kind of establishment that requires social proof. It applies to dance clubs. It applies to bars. It applies to school. You name it.
One way to fix this, of course, is to pay people to form a line or hang out inside the restaurant. Restauranteurs have been known to do this. They do it in several ways. First, there is the friend and family launch so, basically, their friends, relatives, neighbors, and associates show up. Some are even so bold as to pay people for a line.
Clubs do this by inviting a well-renowned DJ and then having people line up. The doorman basically will select only the most beautiful people or the most famous people to come in. When people see that line, guess what happens? The line gets even longer because of the reverse of the empty restaurant effect.
The opposite also applies. If you see a restaurant that’s full and there’s a long line of people, part of you would say, “That’s where I want to be .Where there is smoke, there is fire. There’s a reason why those people are lining up.”
Dating Apps’ Solution to the Empty Restaurant Effect
Just like paying people to line up, AMWF dating apps and AMWF dating sites can stock their membership rolls with “online guides” or “online hosts and hostesses.” This is really just a euphemism for fake accounts.
They have to go through these hoops because they don’t want to get sued for fraud. When you contact these accounts, they basically ask you questions regarding how you’re doing and how they can help you with the website.
The idea is to use these accounts as “online doorman” or “online female greeters” to make people feel at home. However, the psychological effect is quite obvious. These aren’t really fooling anybody, at least anybody who is in any least bit curious about what’s going on.
It’s all about stacking the numbers of members in specific areas so new prospects would think that there are enough members in their area.
Launching an AMWF dating site or AMWF dating apps is pretty straightforward if you are targeting areas that already have a lot of Asian guys and white girls who want to get together with Asian guys.
Places like San Francisco, New York, Los Angeles, or Chicago are not a problem. But what if you live a hundred miles away? What if you live in Humboldt County in California? What if you live in the inner parts of San Bernardino county? Asians are fewer and far between.
This is where these membership “greeters” come in. They look Asian so it attracts more white girls. When an Asian guy sees that there are a lot of white females looking for Asian guys featured in an app, then he’s more likely to install the app and become more active. This then triggers even more females.
This is how dating websites and dating apps get started. They ultimately have to “pump the prime” in the beginning. The responsible way to do this, of course, is to delete those “greeter” accounts. Once you have a fairly good volume of bona fide, flesh-and-blood human beings who meet the demographic profile what the app or dating site is about, you stop.
Sadly, this is not always the case. There are a lot of operators AMWF dating apps who have “the more, the merrier” mindset. This can lead to all sorts of issues.
How to Achieve Success with AMWF Dating Apps
The following success tips that I’m going to share with you are geared primarily towards Tinder. These tips are very simple yet very powerful. There are all sorts of convoluted and intentionally complicated and supposedly sophisticated “pick-up artist” techniques out there but don’t believe the hype. Seriously.
Pick-up artist sites are a niche, in and of themselves, and they make their money trying to come off like they’re delivering something that is different. Either the tips that they give you are just a rehashed version of more common sense tips or they’re just making stuff up.
I hate to say it but that’s the truth. By sticking to the basics, you increase your chances of actually getting the results that you’re looking for.
AMWF Dating App Tips for Guys
If you are an Asian dude looking for an AMWF hookup or a relationship at AMWF dating apps, the first thing that you need to do is to accept almost all the white girl profiles you come across. Whether you right-swipe or you tap a certain icon, do that. You have to be very, very forgiving regarding your physical requirements. You’re not looking for Kate Upton. You shouldn’t be looking for supermodel-tier beauty. If you’re looking for a relationship, of course you should increase your standards.
Guys in general are often looking for fun though. So if she is passable enough for you where you can imagine yourself having a good time with her, that is good enough for a white girl! No need to go further than that in terms of your requirements.
I’m not saying that you should lower your standards. Of course, you still should stay within your standards. Obviously, you don’t want to right-swipe somebody who makes you want to throw up or makes you want to head for the exit. Nobody’s recommending that.
What I am saying is that everybody has some sort of acceptability threshold as far as the appearance of the female they’d go out with. So, look for the lower end of your threshold and stick to that as long as it makes sense to you.
Again, I’m not saying that you should lower your standards. I’m not saying that you should have no standards at all.
The Method to the Madness
The reason you should select as many females as you comfortably can really all boils down to probability. Guys who use this technique are more likely to end up with a female. How come? The technique uses two steps.
The first step is to accept pretty much all decent-looking chicks. Once you get a match, however, then and only then should you be more selective. Look at their bio. Take a longer look at their pictures. Is there a chance that there may be a bit of bait and switch here? Are you in for an unpleasant surprise?
Look at their location. How convenient is it? Sure, the app may say that she lives 30 miles from you when you first right-swipe. Now that you’ve gotten a dual match and she accepted you as well, now is the time to ask is 30 miles convenient for me is too much of a hassle? What about 100 miles? What about 150 miles?
There’s no right or wrong answer here. Some guys wouldn’t have a problem jumping into a car and driving for 80 miles. I know, I’ve done it before.
It also depends on how awesome the highway system is in your particular area. If you live in certain parts of California, this is not a problem. However, if you live in a part of the country where highways are very congested and you have to pay a toll, you might want to think twice. You might want to look for matches that are closer to home.
This is the only tip you need if you are a guy.
Tip for White Girls Using AMWF Dating Apps
If you’re a white girl looking for a sexy Asian guy, the best advice I could give you again is as simple as the advice above.
Select only guys who you think are truly hot and/or interesting. Be selective because there are a lot of hot asian guys. This is also how you avoid choosing the wrong Asian guy. They’re not all the same. It’s not unusual for women who use dating apps to show up and the guy looks complete and different from his profile so make sure to screen them. You’ve been chumped. You’ve been punked. Don’t do it! Be as selective as possible. Since guys are using mass likes and basically swiping all decent-looking females, this all evens out at the end. There are even fake flexers in today’s modern age of Instagram. The ones that you spend a lot of times selecting have a chance of right-swiping or selecting your profile as well.
Don’t think that you are missing out. Don’t think that you are putting yourself at a disadvantage or you’re being too selective. It’s much better to be over-selective than be sorry later on. Keep the tips above in mind when using AMWF dating apps. There are lots of great-looking Asian guys out there who are funny, interesting, and exciting. There are lots of amazing white females out there who have great personalities, who look stunning, and bring a lot to the table.
The key is to learn how to play your cards right using AMWF dating apps and AMWF dating websites. If you jump into this with both feet with absolutely no strategy, don’t be surprised if you waste a lot of time only to have very little to show for it. Worse yet, you might come to regret your decision.
So, do yourself a big favor. If you don’t want to settle or if you don’t want to get in over your head, come in prepared. Follow the tips above and you should be fine.